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Bystander perspective in bullying

Sprouts. (2016, July 25). The Bystander Effect. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5l6mDwanphM

The video tries to focus on what bystanders can do and how they can help the bullied person. I think it is good that bullying is viewed from this perspective because it can help the bullied person. Bystanders play a crucial role because they can influence the situation both positively and negatively. It is great that the video focuses on how bystanders can help the bullied person because their influence is often underestimated.


From this perspective, it is powerful to emphasize that a bystander does not have to be a passive observer. When they intervene, they can make a difference by simply stopping the bully or offering support to the bullied person. A bystander who speaks out can also encourage others to do the same, which increases the social pressure against bullying.


In addition, it can help when bystanders signal the situation and report it to an adult or authority figure. This not only makes it easier for the bullied person to get help, but it also prevents the situation from escalating.


Another thing I think about the power of the bystander is that they can have a huge impact on group dynamics. Often it is the group norm that perpetuates bullying behavior, and bystanders who challenge that norm can help to break the culture of bullying. So the power of the bystander lies in the collective responsibility they can take to create positive change. It takes courage to stand up, but by doing so they can help create a safer and more supportive environment for everyone.

- Hannah Nys 

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