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"Bullying: What It Is and What to Do About It" by the American Psychological Association (APA)

 

"Bullying: What It Is and What to Do About It" by the American Psychological Association (APA)


Reference: American Psychological Association. (2023). Bullying: What it is and what to do about it. Retrieved from https://www.apa.org/topics/bullying

This article from the American Psychological Association explains clearly what bullying is and why it is a serious problem in schools and in life. It says that bullying happens when someone uses their power to hurt another person on purpose, more than one time. This power can be physical (like being stronger), social (being popular), or emotional (knowing something personal about someone).

I learned that bullying is not only about hitting or pushing someone. There are different types. Verbal bullying means saying hurtful things, like insults or threats. Social bullying is when a person is left out on purpose or people talk badly about them behind their back. The article also explains cyberbullying, which is very common today. This happens online or through phones, and it can be very hard to stop.

One part that made me think was how bullying can affect the victim for a long time. It can make someone feel very sad, scared, or even depressed. Sometimes, students who are bullied don’t want to go to school anymore. But the article also says that the bully can have problems too. If they continue with these behaviours, they might have trouble making friends or following rules in the future.

I believe this article is important because it helps people understand that bullying is not a small problem. Many people think it’s just part of growing up, but it is not. Bullying is serious and can hurt people deeply. After reading the article, I think it is very important that we talk about bullying more in schools and help students learn how to treat others with respect.

In my opinion, everyone like teachers, students, and families, should work together to stop bullying. It’s important to create a safe place in school where everyone feels welcome. If someone sees bullying, they should not stay quiet. Saying something or helping the victim can make a big difference.


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